[1] Okay so first things first- if they hurt you they're dead <3 [2] you knew that already but bears repeatin n all [3] also your romantic partner should also be your friend like that's a really important actually [4] wait okay actually [5] are we freakin out about romantic or sexual attraction cause those're different
[1] I have links hold on [2] so makin an assumption but given that I've known you your whole life please don't hit me this assumption is made with love [3] I think you're here -> https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/understanding-asexuality/ [4] prolly leaning demi/gray-a but somewhere on there most likely [5] romance n sex are different, you can wanna be romanced by someone without wanting to ever see them naked and that's FINE [6] you can also want to fuck someone and not at all be interested in gettin dinner with em and goin' on dates and that's FINE TOO [7] you can also want to do both and that is also fine as long as you are bein safe and makin smart choices with who you're with [7] this will also probably help you -> https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/crushes-early-relationships/ [8]
[1]....I wanted to save you the freak out I had when I realized I was queer because not being into people is also a kind of queer [2] I wanted to be prepared so I could help you through it <3
[1]......yes [2] although to be fair I was reading the entire trevor project website for me, saw this bit, thought of you and bookmarked it on my laptop just in case this ever came up [3] you know how I get when I'm anxious
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Date: 2024-01-22 09:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-01-22 09:05 pm (UTC)[2] Like not as a friend, like you're into them?
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Date: 2024-01-22 09:14 pm (UTC)[2] you knew that already but bears repeatin n all
[3] also your romantic partner should also be your friend like that's a really important actually
[4] wait okay actually
[5] are we freakin out about romantic or sexual attraction cause those're different
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Date: 2024-01-22 09:16 pm (UTC)[2] Both maybe? I'm not really sure, this is very new.
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Date: 2024-01-22 09:25 pm (UTC)[2] so makin an assumption but given that I've known you your whole life please don't hit me this assumption is made with love
[3] I think you're here -> https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/understanding-asexuality/
[4] prolly leaning demi/gray-a but somewhere on there most likely
[5] romance n sex are different, you can wanna be romanced by someone without wanting to ever see them naked and that's FINE
[6] you can also want to fuck someone and not at all be interested in gettin dinner with em and goin' on dates and that's FINE TOO
[7] you can also want to do both and that is also fine as long as you are bein safe and makin smart choices with who you're with
[7] this will also probably help you -> https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/crushes-early-relationships/
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Date: 2024-01-22 09:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-01-22 10:39 pm (UTC)[2] I wanted to be prepared so I could help you through it <3
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Date: 2024-01-22 11:07 pm (UTC)[2] That’s somehow both impressive and a little annoying.
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Date: 2024-01-22 11:17 pm (UTC)[2] although to be fair I was reading the entire trevor project website for me, saw this bit, thought of you and bookmarked it on my laptop just in case this ever came up
[3] you know how I get when I'm anxious
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Date: 2024-01-22 11:20 pm (UTC)[2] Thanks for this. You’re a big help.
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Date: 2024-01-22 11:34 pm (UTC)[2] love you no matter what Paigey